I do believe it is an illness, some people have an addictive trait. My husband comes from a family who all suffer from some kind of addiction, mostly alcohol. I don’t have that trait. I enjoy a drink and can stop and have a cup of tea. I used to get so angry at my husbands drinking. Now l am angry because of the way he talks to me. Hopi k pick picks spoiling for a row. He was criticizing my driving so much one day that l pulled up so hard that l nearly put him through the windscreen. That’s what’s ares me is my anger and l am not usually that way. I want to enjoy every day not have this heavy cloud hanging over me.
