How awful for you and your daughter. My husband is not that sick yet but he is heading that way as time goes on. As l said in my original post l will not leave him so l have to find ways to live my life with him. I am 68 he’s 59. This past week he has been sleeping a lot, he broke his ankle a week ago, old injury just snapped, so he has an excuse to do nothing. I am trying to keep calm and not make negative comments while all the time l am seething inside. Once he’s out of beer he will get himself out for more. He does all his drinking at home. This past year he has had several bouts of sickness and then he goes cold turkey and that’s when l have to watch him like a Hawk in case he has a seizure. I am a retired nurse but they still leave me quite traumatized. I didn’t call for an ambulance the last time as he’s usually recovering when they get here. If he stops breathing there’s no way l could revive him as he’s gotten so big. I know it’s awful but his huge beer gut grosses me out. I have never said anything to him about it as l would never want to hurt his feelings. I read your story and you sound so caring. I am just angry, frustrated and resentful. I don’t think he’s ever going to stop so l have to look after myself.l do hope your hubby makes it.
