It’s sad they do this. My husband also has gotten large. I dont wish this life on anyone. I can’t trust anymore due to all the lies and my mind is so bruised from all the arguing and the verbal scolding I was getting. It sounds much like you I too am the provider so trying to keep it together to maintain my ability to work is also a challenge. I want him well I just wish there was a guarantee that after this rehab stay he will never drink again. However what I am seeing with him is that evertime he heals he gets these thoughts that he is resilient and he starts up again. It’s so sad as we have a nice life otherwise.
