I recently read up on codependency. I am definately a lot of that and it sounds like you are too. I am now practicing detachment which in turn should help stop the codependency. A friend recently gave me advice that she got from a counceller…..you cannot change another person, only yourself. I know for sure l am my husbands crutch and safety net. I think he feared a seizure on Monday so has not had a drink since then. I did not ask. I am no longer going to ask if he’s taken his pills etc and l must not falter because as soon as l do and he feels better in will come a case of beer, highest alcohol content he can get. It happens every time. I am actually an expat so not on lockdown. I am doing a trip on my own this month meeting up with other ladies from my home town so he can get on with it. I just hope he remembers to let the dog out.
