Hi 68862,
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s very sad but so similar to so many here on the forum who have a loved one with addictions.
My 29yr old son also has alcohol and cocaine addictions so I know the rollercoaster of emotions and distress it causes a family.
If you click on to ‘share your story ‘ and read the Theresa thread. There are several of us mums all with sons with addictions, so you have no need to feel alone and realise there are others in your exact situation unfortunately.
At least we can offer each other advice and support and know that no one is judging you.
The Icarus trust also posts here i believe they offer counselling .
I understand how you are feeling, my husband and I have tried everything to help, but realise now that it is ultimately their decision to stop. My son was recently nearly 6 months clean and he’s relapsed again, im heartbroken and feel very low .
But, we have to be strong, say no more cash, still let them know that we love and care about them. We need to take care of our own health and well-being or we’ll end up being casualties in this addiction too.
It’s difficult but try to take pleasure in the little things for the moment.
Spring is here, weather is improving and lockdown is easing.
Please take care of yourself first and foremost.
Keep in touch here, be strong
Lx