You need to start thinking about yourself. You will never be able to get him to control his drinking. But you deserve a life without this stress. When an addict says they want to change they are forgetting they are an addict- so they don’t necessarily have the will to change, even if they have the intention. What I have realised is that- the sober person of that addict is the problem- because they still want to be the addict. So we need to understand that they will most likely never recover- now think about if that is the life for you.
