Reply To: Feel totally desperate about son’s addictions.

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drainedmum
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Thank you

I am trying to ring Eclipse today to check if he is really waiting but no one answering must be closed bank holiday. I did a test yesterday and it was positive but he is blaming it on weed( which he rarely has) but I know it’s a lie as my gut is telling me so. I’m just devastated as early March I got a loan to pay his debts off on the understanding he pays it out of his wages, ( stupid I know but he had so many pay day loans 400 here 500 there) he has no credit. A week later he looses his job as he basically can not be bothered and they were all selling drugs at work! I got him a temp job whilst we looked for something more permanent. All going well paying me each week and then his behaviour changed, going out at dinner, a couple of evenings to addresses not before ( as he has to keep his data on) and then bank blocking him and him desperate to get a pin no for a new card( to me he had borrowed more money and couldn’t get to it) he is adamant he hasn’t had any and I believed him at first as he wasn’t going out and home straight after work but can see changes. I am testing again today and already dreading the result. It has made me totally paranoid, I know it’s hard to come off but he gives me behaviour to question his activities

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