Hi there I can also 100% relate to what you are going through and am today faced with the same situation, do I kick him out tough love .
He is currently living with us my son (38) split from his girlfriend most relationships ended because of cocaine.
It’s truly heartbreaking …
He’s been in it for the last 4 days I’ve no idea where he is but have just received a txt from him full of remorse and guilt and apologies…..
My last resort is to kick him out as I believe he really does have to hit rock bottom before engaging in any change. The problem for me is that he will commit suicide and I would have to live with that burden!
My dear loving son is a good man and a great human being when sober ….
It is a dilemma and I don’t know what advice to offer other than you are not alone
I feel overwhelmed this week but so so glad I have found this site listening to stories that I can identify with….
Every emotion and all the physical pain we go through I can empathise with and now realise I’m not alone ….
Stay strong sending hugs to you xxx