Hiya Brooke hope your OK.
I’m 106 days clean from coke today.
He did well to get for them months but he can never drink again really. Not if he wants to quit coke. Alcohol is the main trigger to get coke. Normally after months of being clean we tell ourselves.. We can have one drink, one will be OK, I won’t get any coke. But then everything just falls to pot.
I decided to join cocaine anonymous and I’m working the 12 steps and I have a sponsor. Not to sure if u know much about this. But step 4 is were we right down are resentments, fears and sexual conduct down. This can take a few week to do, and the resentments we have is a big part why we can use. Mine was my dad giving me a lot of emotional crap when I was younger. I’m not fully blaming him as we make our own choices. But it doesn’t help.
Anyway the escorts regarding your bf, cocaine can make you do seedy things, I could go on all day about it but I won’t. I cheated on my partner during being on coke.
If he’s still messaging girls and wants be a family. He could be still using coke. Do u still want to be with him while he’s doing this?