Hiya Amy, hope your are OK. I’m over 100 days from coke now. After using for 11 to 12 years. I just finally had enough of it. My addiction was like once a week, or every 2 week or a month but it got quite bad the last year.
God knows why he would want to try spice after what it does to you.
Anyways. I couldn’t do stuff like use the baby’s milk money ect.. That’s just to low for me. Sorry to be blunt. I always used what I could afford. But everyone is different. If he has one, no matter what we both know he’s gonna want more soon after that’s what this shite does to us. It’s so addictive. I finally joined cocaine anonymous 3 month ago and I’ve been clean ever since. I got a sponsor and I’m working the 12 steps and I go to meetings online.
Your partner needs to want to stop for him self and be determined to quit otherwise it won’t work. Does he want to quit?
I’d have a quiet word with him no screaming and that which I don’t blame u if u do. And ask what does he want??
If he wants to quit he needs delete all dealers numbers, and try and change his daily life around and get to some ca meetings. He can’t have alcohol either as this is a trigger to get coke.
Then if he doesn’t try, you really need to think of your 5 month old daughter. What if u needed milk, food last min and he had spent it. When it comes to situations like this and he is not prepared to quit, I think you need get rid ASAP. Kids come 1st. Sorry to be blunt but I’m being honest. If he’s robbing milk money now, what is he gonna be robbing in the future if he’s not prepared to stop.
Plus do you think he could be on crack or summat else? I don’t mean that in a bad way but that stuff makes u do things like that. But I could be wrong. Id stop giving him any money. And if u have any ties with banks together or cards. Hide them all now. Feel free to ask me anything