He will only quit when he wants to. I’ve had to break up with my partner as otherwise the cycle will continue for the rest of our lives. I’ve talked to him about it so many times and asked if he was ready to make a commitment to recovery and our relationship. He always says he is and goes to one or two meetings to keep me quiet and then the inevitable happens….. It’s not possible to have a healthy functioning relationship with a using addict. They will lie, manipulate and deceive you as well as themselves. Addiction is a very sad thing mostly for them but also for us around them. The person they truly are is lost until they want to take the very difficult but not impossible steps to recovery. I hope your husband finds CA and has a positive outcome. Most of all take care of yourself and your own happiness xx
