Not 20, no, it’s difficult to have a relationship with someone when they’ve been in/out of prison, so I only count from when he last got out of prison, 2 years ago.
Well that’s good you don’t have to do the driving. I had to collect an important piece of paperwork before a trip abroad once, it didn’t arrive in the post in time, so had to collect it myself. 12hr round-trip, 4 packs of gum, 2 maccy d’s and a newly found appreciation for people who drive for a living haha!