Ye I fully understand why u paid. Just don’t let him keep taking advantage. I had that mentality I’d just not drink for x a mount of months. It doesn’t work. And then after a year when he drinks he could relapse on coke.
So I’ve had to quit alcohol aswell.
Will he join CA? I totally get how u feel. I told my mum everything and it broke her.
Tell him listen to a few addiction recovery stories on you tube and podcast. They help me alot. Plus meetings are on zoom now aswell.