So good to hear from you, I was only thinking about you the other day! My life has just got better & better! I LOVE my new home, I’m back out competing & doing what I love with my horses & I have them both here with me at home which is a dream come true! I’ve had a big pay rise at work, had my hair done (and by Botox) ha ha! so I feel a million dollars! I’ve been out for meals with friends, doing all the things I love again that make me happy that I didn’t realise he had slowly stripped away from me & life couldn’t be better. He’s done a few things that have set me back like messaging me on my birthday (I subsequently spent the whole day in tears) & he sat in a lay by near my house a few weeks ago but I just told him to sod off in no uncertain terms. I avoid going back to the village because it just upsets me/makes me angry but I think that will fade in time. Everyone knows the truth about him now despite him blaming it all on ‘mental Health’ (And me) which has also made me feel a lot better & I care less & less about it every day. I’ve started dating a really nice guy too who has made me realise how wrong my ex was for me in so many ways & I’ve told him everything, I was really worried that I would never be able to trust someone again but it hasn’t affected me (as yet & i’m hoping it stays that way!) I hope the house viewing goes well, moving away was the BEST thing I did. Does he still contact you? Xx