My partner was addicted to opium exactly same , money was missing, mistake after mistakes and lies are worse i agree, but i did shout at him i told him i know about his addiction and talk to his family , and pray every night day so he can admit and decide to be sober so a week ago he said he want his normal life back as i tried to be patient and be friend with him, now his is away for 2 weeks for recovery, you are not selfish as you have to be strong for your children and think about yourself but in my experience shouting leaving relationship does not help ,
