Dot, it’s interesting to speak to someone from your perspective! Well done on being 12 months clean.
The thing that struck me in your message was that you said you maybe you weren’t willing to change… this hits I guess me – the wife of an addict because I often wonder if I’m just not enough and our children to want to change for. Is it as simple as just not being happy in a marriage as to the reason not to get clean?!
My husband is also extremely manipulating and actually controlling and nasty with it. Would you say that’s typical addiction behaviour?!
I’ve actually thought it must be his personality because he is adamant he is off the drugs x