No I’m not saying it’s you at all. Addicts blame everyone else except themselves and as long as they are getting there own way they will continue to do so. Enabling can be anything from letting them continue “letting them live in the same house” giving them money ”
The way the mind works or mind did was that I had to see no benefit of using cocaine anymore so even though cocaine made me feel better when I used it was destroying everything around me and I didn’t care or see it till it was too late.
It steals everything and took me a long time to get where I am. If he’s saying he’s off drugs then drug test him. If he fails he will blame the test and say he’s not but he will do anything to keep things as they are.
My advice is start with a random test don’t tell him your gonna do it just say do a urine test for me and watch him do it. Will give you alot of answers. Chemists sell them.
I’d also advise looking up charities and learn about the drug to understand it better.
Don’t ever feel you aren’t good enough because that’s what it makes people be like to continue there life of using and
will do whateverr it takes to continue using it. Whether that be lie, cheat, manipulate or steal