[himbeere]

You are totally right! That’s what I worry about. I have a kid with my ex, my husband treats her really well but he never wanted a kid, only until this month he decided to have one and it just happened. I always want a kid with him though. He is the type of person when he is not ready, no matter what he just won’t do it. So for him if he wants a kid he would do anything to have it and look after the kid. Perhaps I just naively have faith. I do want this kid to be honest, but I do worry.

So you left your ex, how is he now? And how are you?