This is my first post here. I am clean now for 4 months from cocaine and I put my wife through hell and back with it.
I would do anything on it and I mean anything, it was shameful.
The final straw for me was being caught AGAIN and my wife telling me that she did not know if she could stay with me but if she didn’t that my kids would not be able to see me either as she would not let them come and stay with me if i had a drug problem.
I managed to get to speak to a counsellor and that has made a big difference but I hate to say it, if I didn’t finally want to stop then all the counselling in the world wouldn’t have made any difference.
I hope your husband can make the decision for himself sooner rather than later.