Thank Ash. It has taken loads of courage to join this as I fid not know what to do I have reams of writing as I started to journal the good the bad and ugly when I noticed it all .
It’s created a narcissistic person who is awful lazy rude . But in public the bloody bees knees .
Glad j can look through this and feel there maybe hope . We’ve been together 22 years and the last 3 have been horrendous. We split once for 6 weeks I had no clue where he was for 2 . Then found out he was at his dad’s. His family think I make it up as he told them i did .
I asked his dad for help as he is an alcoholic who has been sober for 30yrs who understood and told me stuff tk look out for . We had a good relationship till that day I told him . My hubby told his died i lied and he’s not spoke to me since
I worker in mh services so I understand some bits .
Sorry to go on but it’s just nice to finally sick this up