That’s the worst part – the switching of emotions and the not knowing what they actually mean and feel. Go on the theory that actions speak louder than words.
They love you, they hate you, they leave you hanging, they hate you, they tear a million strips off you, they exclude you, they steal off you, they lie to you, they are sorry, they hate you, they love you, they are off again!!
You just can’t keep up with it, let alone work out what is true, not much in the end
It’s a grieving process that during; you will find NO comfort for your feelings
That’s a sad fact but it’s true and tbh honest you must accept it, to be able move forward to be free of it all.
They will let you hang in there enabling the situation as long as you want to
I used to think my husband was different and things would work out; but I was daydreaming into a nightmare
Don’t be scared of the change it can be good