I can’t say to you, stop bailing him out, but I know al – anon tell you this. As a mum this is such a hard decision to make.
I’m glad you joined the Theresa thread, some of the mums have been through this already and a lot worse. They will be very supportive and helpful.
The Icarus trust also gives support and advice too.
I stopped paying the drugs debt, but I bought food and cigs until he got/gets paid. It’s just whatever works for each situation I guess. But I agree, its a vicious cycle.
Stay strong and positive if you can, and take care of you.
Lx