I am very sorry it has gotten this bad. The main focus of my life is gaining the chance to rebuild a relationship with my 2 children and I have to face the fact that I have missed 2 years of their lives despite odd phonecalls. Until the authorities are satisfied I am not allowed direct contact. This for me was what changed my attitude. Even living in a car park wasn’t enough to alter my actions but my children deserve to have a father and to deprive them of that is selfishness on my part.
I hope you can find the strength to support your son from a safe distance and that he will make the choice to continue in the same vain or to make a change.
You can destroy yourself trying to make it happen but only he can make the choice.
Stay strong and cherish the good days!