Replying to @she Just found this thread again. Please know you are all amazing strong survivors. My story read like many here…however along time and all my patience later I hope it’s all behind us. Three failed attempts but the final threat from his narcissistic supplier/groomer about me was enough for him to finally believe what’s I’d said all along. So much money lost, time lost but a week in Vegas away from all the noise was enough to break the spell. A threat for him to move out and he realised. Never thought it would end. Four years of hell….still have nightmares and sometimes think he’ll relapse but he genuinely seems to be back to former person. This is now two years on..lockdown also helped us . Sending you all much love avd strength. I woud have kicked him out though and that certainty from me really helped him see his future so dont be scared to be honest…he said it helped him to focus.
