Thanks @Sal, it really is the last chance now because I am running the risk of alienating my own family who have shown nothing but support to my wife since finding out her issues but the more she continues to spiral the more they are beginning to push back everytime i call in tears.
One thing I can say, I haven’t eaten a meal since Wednesday due to the stress I have been under, that knot in my stomach was so tight, but just reading others experiences on here and having support from other members has made me feel so much better, so I am going to sit and eat a meal shortly with my kids and try to enjoy a normal evening.
Thanks again.