That resonates also , the two week cycle . Mine would have regret be okay for 2 weeks then off we would go again.
As much as we can tell you sweetheart and you can read our stories , you will try and help until you really have been broken to the core . Only then will you have the strength to keep those boundaries and you will I promise .
You will read grown men walking away from perfect lives & families and choosing cocaine over anybody else .
It’s really important that you , protect yourself now. It’s easy for me to say now , and even after making my husband of 19 years homeless currently living in his van that I knew every time I kept a roof over his head I was enabling.
I watched him beg that night say all the things I wanted to hear , when I stood my ground he went from crying to spewing venomous hate . I knew right there and then I had done the right thing .
They get taken from us, but you can’t hold on and you can’t make them quit . But you can save yourself .
The disappearing , the hanging out with new people the staying up it’s all classic behaviour. Tomorrow is a new day for you …. But until he’s ready to get real help it’s just another day of doing what he needs to to feed his habit so nothing new just an old habit .
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