Hi Liberty
yeh to be honest most of how she is behaving is exactly how I always used to joke during happy times that she would, so I can hardly be surprised when she is acting exactly as I always predicted.
I’ve met a girl a few times now with plans to meet again etc, so that’s a good start, and from what I know she doesn’t have a secret drug habit ha. so that’s always a plus,
yeh the book is nothing to do with the band ha,
but it is really good, it just makes so much sense of so much really, like the whole dynamic of my relationship with an adult, as she was so repressed she repressed everyone around her, and I am open and want to talk about things but she could never allow that.
I have been recommended it to so many people, but yes ideally the addicts and mentally ill could benefit from it more as it’s them that are in need of the help to open up, whereas we as partners are already open but this book does help understand why they are like they are.