I have been reading through posts on this forum and I feel at the moment it’s the only thing that’s helping me get through a very tough time at the moment. My boyfriend walked out on me a few weeks ago after a blazing argument and told me it was over. He is a cocaine user, unfortunately I feel quite a heavy user. He has opened up to me about using I promised him I would stand by him and get him the help he needs. His family know this is an issue but want to sweep it under the carpet and for months I was the only one bearing the brunt of it all, worried sick when he would drink drive, worry about what state he would come home to me in etc. He is in debt that he has been paying back but I feel its worse than what he told me. Although now he’s moved back home left me with many bills I’m so afraid of where he is going to end up. He told me himself months back when he was at a very low point that I was the only one he had to support him and he was so greatful and trying to change his ways but it was all empty promises he was starting to build my trust and then it would all fall apart again at the weekend. I know now it’s no longer any of my responsibility but I care so much about him and I want him to know that although we may not be together I’m here to talk/support him if he decides to turn his life around. How do you all feel I should address this? There has been no contact the last few weeks only to arrange to collect his items from our rented accommodation. I wonder will he reach out if he’s at rock bottom? My heart breaks not only that our lengthy relationship is over but that if he keeps going what if something disasterous happens him. Could I please get advice on this as my head is in turmoil over it all. Many thanks
