Reply To: Need Advise

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That’s so true even though we don’t know each other we have been brought the same heart breaking situations

Some people are not ready and they continue to look for answers that aren’t there

I have been on my knees with the weight of the acute stress of my husbands addiction

I forgot who I was and it has taken 8 months now to get to this point

I will never go back because I have changed

My mind now has peace

I will always be his friend from a big distance

I don’t think it’s good for you to hold bad feelings and you won’t find peace unless you let it all go

And that is the choice you have to make

To step off the merry go round and let them continue the ride on their own

But I don’t feel responsible for him anymore

We live separate lives and make our own choices

Funny how an addict will never ask how you are, how you feel, what you are doing, or your plans

They will ask for and expect; but not ‘give’

Life always revolves around them, their addiction and ultimately their misery

Which they will blame on you!

Just so you feel as bad as they do!

I wish you happiness and that will come

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