Yes it does make the partner go crazy, if you removed the cocaine out of the situation (and deliberately omitted it from any stories as the addict usually does when they tell other people what’s happened) then your actions would probably seem controlling and irrational but once you find out about the cocaine it makes sense why you would try to take control as the person taking the cocaine makes your life go out of control and you have to try and get control back to fix the things they mess up. It’s a sad truth that you have probably had a lucky escape, but I know it’s hard for someone else to tell you, it’s something you have to realise yourself.
