As the others have said it’s not to do with you, although of course when it’s us telling them of for doing it then we are going to the first one getting the blame back. Unfortunately going the pub for a drink might be something he can’t do. He obviously has some work to do if he wants to change but didn’t identify that himself. Yes he’s still addicted a lot of people say it’s a life long illness and you’re only ever recovering never recovered.
