Thank you anita I am so happy your pain and your sons health is starting to be positive , I am too waiting for the moment the words from my sons mouth I want rehab
He has literally just come out of custody, 18 hours , the mental nurse assessed him there and said he shows no criteria for taking away his liberties but he does show attention deficit and even autism but can’t test as he takes drugs !
He is going to stay with my daughter till Tuesday then he is getting an emergency housing , as he will be homeless , he has lived a privileged life and needs to experience real life if he spends all his money on drugs then he will have no food etc , he does not want rehab and would rather have the worst option !!he can come home if he goes to rehab !
I have to detach all contact for 4 weeks
He has already told my son and daughter he has a knife hitting it on the counter ! We just ignored him ! attention !
We have explained that if he comes near the house the police will be called !
I feel like I have been in an mentally abusive , controlled relationship where my son controlled the house and me and my husband !
Iv got to stay strong ,energise and enjoy my home and marriage again with out my son living here !
Best wishes too anita ! You stay strong too and bless you all in your household xx