They become masters of deception Kitty. Although the truth always comes out.
I’m pleased you are away from the chaos. Is the drug test a hair strand then? as opposed to blood test…. next he’ll shave his hair off…..
I hope you have support from your family and friends. I did from friends, family didn’t know and still don’t. Although I always felt like I was telling the same story over and over, i’m sure they got bored of listening to me! Its funny, I normalised many many situations that were FAR from normal, it just became my life.
Keep texts (although mine started being careful what he text because he knew I could use it against him) record conversations if you can, keep a diary.
I’m always here when you need to talk x