There is when they have reached their deepest and darkest despair then they will reach out, some don’t and sadly death is the only way out. Rock bottom is different for all addicts some don’t have a rock bottom. Gp is best place to start but many do it without help or use AA or CA. I genuinely think they keep you away to not hurt you even though as we all know on here it causes more pain as we love them. My ex said before I kept away from you and the kids because I was no use to you all and I let you down. This was when he was drinking may I add so maybe they so open up more when under the influence but communicating is key to recovery and getting help so if they lack that it’s just a vicious cycle. We are powerless only they can change it took me a long time to accept this.
