Well I told her mum and dad last year and they said they would help , but there help was a phone call once a week . Basically her issues have come from her mum and dad not being there for her and not loving her .
So I told them all again about a month ago and her grandparents , as they are basically her mum and dad .
She turned it round on me saying she’s only done it once or twice and I’m over exaggerating and she’s only done it because of a way out of our toxic relationship …even tho we were engaged and very happy before the coke started .
So her family have pushed us to sell the house and split up . She’s living in her nans but she comes here quiet often cos she says she misses me .
She was using on Friday night and wanted us to sell the house and find somewhere together and she’s saying she wants to get married and have a baby . But she doesn’t know how to explain getting back together to her family …as shes told them I’m controlling etc….
I just don’t know what she wants anymore and everything I think I’m getting some where , the following day she will be dead nasty to Me and disappear for the night to her nans or her friends .
Then yesterday I didn’t answer the phone to her cos I signed up at s gym and she had a right go at me saying am I getting fit for a new girlfriend and have I fallen out of love with her ….
Thing is it’s her that never shows Me any love or puts me above coke or friends …
Then she sees her arse if I miss a phone call of her !
I just don’t understand anything anymore , this is a girl who I’ve spent 10 years with and know I don’t even know her ….