Hi Dan,
Basically, he joined this online rehab program instead of going into residential rehab. They give him tools to try and stop at home, in your own surroundings. It is helpful to some extent, where by he isn’t using as often but he’s not gone more than 2 weeks and several weeks ago his use went back to every weekend.
If he doesn’t use this weekend that’s 2 weeks clean, I pray he doesn’t.
He had been using in those weeks and he had been messaging women online and I had this is random message from some Facebook account saying he told her my name and was being horrible. Where his mind takes him on drugs I will never know.
Things generally have been ok since I stopped communicating with him via social media, particularly WhatsApp.
He wanted to speak to me over the phone in the week, but I was busy and he said he will call in a few days, haven’t spoken to him yet as I know he finds it hard to communicate, one minute he’s chatty the next he appears withdrawn.
I’ll probably message him some point today before this evening, as the evening is when he usually gets on one and I don’t want to be caught up in that and him start messaging vile stuff.
Glad to hear you’re ok, and you’re seeing things more positively. Keep it up Dan you’re doing amazingly.