Reply To: Recovering from years of believing he would change

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danman83
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Hiya Beth hope you are OK.

I’m 2 month and a week clean from cocaine. And I got 4 month at the start of the year. I’ve been doing my best for years to stop. But I finally joined C. A and I’m doing great.

I just basically want to say it’s never ever your fault. Us as addicts make our own choices. I don’t blame Morrisons for selling me vodka everyday, even tho I don’t drink. He’s just using this as an excuse. Alot of using is from some past trauma, so it’s highly this was something from his past that he has not dealt with. Working the 12 steps helps.

But I’m glad you have moved on, and it was never ever your fault.

Have a good weekend

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