Hey you!
You got it spot on!
He wanted to start these date nights but I’m sure it’s just so I’m another outlet for his to use,
I think his friend has irritated him so he’s back around me.
It still makes me sick that he will happily use on his own though! A dirty dark room n just him!.
So we went off to the pub Tuesday as planned, strangely he got drunk first which I never really see him do, he usually uses n then is all chat a million miles an hour!,
He still worked his way round the pub, joining in every ones convos with me apologizing as he went!
He likes to tell the world my age n then that we’ve not been getting along as soon as he’s on it so that happened, pisses me off quite a bit because I don’t sit there telling people what he’s like an that he’ll be in the Loo sniffing crap constantly lol.
Anyway yeah it was alright, went back to his mums, I booked myself a taxi just as he decided to buy himself 2 more! He messaged me all
night, I woke up with our little one n he was still well away texting rubbish!.
He doesn’t remember much of the night at all which I’m guessing is something they put in his crap, I had to tell him what had gone on n I took my chance to tell him I’m done with how he goes round talking about us.
Won’t change but it was nice to say lol,
I’m so happy for you! Don’t loose that strength! I felt like that a couple of weeks back, n then he called n I did stupidly let him back in!.
It’s hard because his mum really needs me around as he’s so crap, n she’s lovely, just hard to stop caring but you are right n he will hurt me again because he’s never even slowed down on doing this rubbish! It defo comes first to all of us!