None of his using is your fault at all. So plz don’t be thinking this. It’s easy for an addict to blame other people when the problems lies within.
It sounds like he’s doesn’t know what he wants. And that could be the coke.. 1 minute he’s up the. Next down.
Ili went to a C. A meeting last night and there was some great shares. A man shared who was 19 years clean, and this is true what he shared.. That he’s been doing the programme for 19 years and you can not put it down. You have to do it daily. Pray, meditate, connect with 2 to 3 people daily, go to meetings and live an honest life. And the rewards are great. You feel so much happier and content.
And it’s true.
If you do things like miss meditation, prayers, skip meetings, you will lead to relapse. If we work the programme each day we become a better person.
And all this takes up.. What 80 mins a day if u do a meeting.. All free of charge. You feel happy, your a better human being and its a better way of life. It works if you work it.
So he really needs to be doing this each day if he wants to stay clean.
But also no matter how upsetting this is for you, you need your time and you need to think of your health. This has a big effect on family members and you need to think of yourself aswell.