August 8, 2021 at 12:15 pm
#24467
heartbroken88
Participant
Yes my understanding is that it takes some serious commitment and there’s no way he has just given it up.
It’s the not knowing what he wanted. If he had stuck with that he wanted help then we might not be heading for divorce but as it is it’s too late.
He decided to get married and he decided to have a family but he has never ever put me or his children first. Unfortunately I was already pregnant when this behaviour reared it’s head as obvious.
I am thinking of myself and trying to move on but he has made things very difficult with not cooperating when any rational person would just cooperate.
It’s truly heartbreaking for me and I guess I’m going through grief as I never wanted my Marriage to end