Hey
It’s so funny sharing stories!, yeah always memories about his childhood, all the fights he got into – with continuous replays of how he punched them as he struts up and down the living room ????
And because I can’t talk about my past as it caused so much jealousy I’d sit night after night hearing his stories, I’d even have favorite ones so would steer a boring conv just so I could sit back and watch him play out a story!!
So many nights I’d have to listen to how an engine works!!! ???? so funny!!
Funny enough my one was due to remember a “father figure” who passed away n I was aware that he would be planning a long night of drinking but his friend disappeared off to celebrate a wedding and never told him! So I get a call asking if I wanted to drink with him instead!
Rude!
Haha anyway I say no so he gets on it by himself and sends loads of the wedding party messages because he wasn’t invited but his friend was!!
Such a stupid move!!
Anyway, I saw him with our little one last night, he’s changed his tune! On best behavior! No drink, played with baby, had his mum playing too, drove me home last night and asked if he could stay the night!!
I said no haha, I did say that he could come over after work tonight and watch tv with us for a bit and if he’s good and doesn’t drink then he can stay! So we will see….
Won’t lie, I’m quite happy having the whole bed to myself and not having to answer to him so I’ll see how it goes ????
Funny though!! And today, instead of laying about until work he’s been up getting stuff done over at his!! Crazy but funny!!
I really hope yours makes a change for the better! N yeah maybe he’s starting to see he needs to change! But yeah It’s nice to just be okay either way!! I feel like that now, I’m enjoying my space but if he really puts in the effort we will see!, I think we gotta realise that we are worth so much more than we’ve put up with!
There’s no way he would have stood by me!!
Let me no how it goes xx