Hi,
Thanks for posting. I’m sorry that your partner’s drinking is causing you such worry. If you would like to get some support please contact us at Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports people having to deal with addiction in their family. perhaps talking with one of our experienced and trained people would help to answer some of your questions and see a way ahead.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best.