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danman83
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Hey there nick, I hope your OK.

I have a cocaine addiction I am over 80 days clean now. And I have been doing my best to quit for years and I finnaly found cocaine anonymous and I have now found the best way to stop and it’s helping me alot.

Anyways… I am 99 percent certain it’s cocaine your husband has a coke problem, and the main reason, the lack of eye Contact when he is using. The minute I looked at my ex gf she new I was on it! You can’t concentrate on someone with out them looking at you and your thinking… Can she see if I’m high. And he will be agitated that he does not want to get caught. His mouth moving funny is called gurning, which happens alot. The bag aswell.. He’s definitely on coke. But it doesn’t smell like tooth paste and you hardly get it in tinfoil but I guess some dealers are different.

All you need to do is go the chemist buy a wee drug testing kit and ask him to take it. If he refused there’s your answer.

Also cocaine has a few really bad side effects and the main one. When you run out. For example I have just had my last line of cocaine, with in 20 mins u want more and more. And then you go into depression and feel suicidal.it messes with your dopamine levels in your brain. I’ve lost a few friends from suicide from come downs from come.

You can feel depressed for days on it. Then Friday comes and it’s back using. It’s a big vicious circle.

Some tell tale signs.. If you think he is using or on it. He won’t want to eat at all. Asleep for long periods of time when not using. Maybe going bed at 6am and not up till late. Alcohol is a big trigger for coke. If he’s drinking he will get cocaine.

Just pull him on it.

Now how to stop. 1st off you can not tell him you want him to stop.

He needs to want to for himself.

No 1 else. He needs stop drinking, cut all mates off, pubs, clubs, and change his life around. And go to CA. I hope this helps. Feel free to message me anytime

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