He says he does want to stop but as you know all too well it’s like dealing with two different people. So then sometimes will get the other side where he’s done it and then I get accused of being controlling and wanting to tell him what to do because I’m upset that he’s done it again.
I really don’t know how he can distance himself well enough from that lifestyle, over half of the people at his work place do it. So even if he tried going out making new friends at work it would constantly be there.
All of his friends are into it in someway and one of their friends also took his own life as he was in so much debt and didn’t know how to stop. all the friends know that was the reason it happened and that hasn’t put any of his friends off taking it still, it’s so sad.
Sorry for your loss Kate and I also hope that you can help some people with your story.