Hi there I can relate to your story on the same substance use my boyfriend of 2 years is also a crack addict it wasn’t clear to me to begin with I suspected he used cocaine as a recreational user but to my horror it was crack! There was red flags from the start but I foolishly believed I could change him this is not the case, I dont live with him and when hes using I barely see him he will go off and I feel nothing but neglect all I ever hear is I love you no actions only words that mean absolutely nothing, I’ve ended the realtionship quite a number of times but I always find myself back because I’m afraid I love him I wish I didnt but I do and im at the point now where I need to think with my head instead of my heart and its telling me walk away cut him off let him be and let him discover tough love if he comes back and wants help great but if not thats what am scared off that the outcome isn’t what I hope for and im left hurt broken, they lack empathy from what I can tell you they con you to believe they not doing it they lie continuously its a horrible place to be in as a partner im here to speak to you because I’ve been on here for a while and I couldnt bring myself to write my story however I take comfort in the fact that we have eachothrr support and advice.
