I hear you. I’m sorry you’re in this situation – it sounds heart-breaking. I have been with my partner for 10 years. He used to smoke a of weed lot before we met (I did a fair bit too), but we’d both stopped by the time we met each other. About five years into the relationship he started having a little bit every now and then, which was fine. In the last 3 years this developed into an addiction, I hate it but he doesn’t want to talk about it. It leaves me feeling lonely. Like he is living in a bubble and I’m left in the real world. I feel it’s affecting our communication (it sometimes seems like his people skills and ability to experience empathy have gone downhill). I hope you find some good support and advice on this forum (and in real life). Talking to my friends really helps. This is my first day on this forum, so I’ve not really read much so far.