Hi Dee,
I’m so glad that you have come on to the forum and are talking with Danman who is great to talk with and gives good advice. If you would like anyone else to talk with you may like to contact us at Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports families dealing with addiction issues. We have trained and experienced people we call Family Friends who you could talk with if you get in touch.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.