Hi Scotty,
So sorry to read your post and see what you are going through due to your wife’s alcoholism and how its affecting your family.
I work for a charity called Icarus Trust. We offer support to people like you who are dealing with addiction in their family. We know how tough this is and we have specially trained and experienced Family Friends who you could speak with if you think it would help.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you and your family.