I know how you both feel, me & the kids were everything our world was perfect. Been together 25 years 6 years ago realised his problem a massive problem he owed thousands left me to face it. He suffered a break down he got some help & support but he refused to talk about it when I tried he would say I’m stressing him out!! He stayed off it about 8 months 5 years later nothing changed, his promises are lies, he’s miserable never happy always my fault, I must hit him with guilt when he sees me but he doesn’t want guilt he wants his coke and it’s winning it’s destroyed my everything. Look out for your self your kids wish I left years ago but I paid his debts
