Thank you Lindyloo
I’m having trouble navigating this site
I can’t fine the thread you suggested
But will keep trying
My son has been with me for the last 3 weeks he’s sober and working from here
But is going home today
He has been very difficult and does a great job of making me feel uncomfortable in my own home
We had to bring him here after his last binge as I needed to be home
I have had breast cancer and my annual check up was due also had flu jab apt
The stress has been unbearable
He through up all the way home in the car
It took over 5 hours
So it was a good few days to recover
He has a week chest from the drinking
And needed antibiotics
As usual it’s all about him
My partner of 35 years is an absolute rock but this episode has made us row a lot I don’t know what to do
How to handle things when he goes I’m constantly checking my phone to see if he has been on WhatsApp
He has days off next week to visit his daughter and her baby he let her down on going for the latest binge
Her husband has recently left her
He is having an affair and taking cocaine
A nicer man you couldn’t wish to meet
Kind funny they had been together 10 years
Obviously I’m worried about her but she lives even further away
How do I handle him from a distance ?
It’s my birthday next week we are due to go to London for a few days
I feel exhausted and scared to go for fear of what he will be doing
There are only people on this sight that would understand
Jb